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Most people think that entering remarriage arrangement with
adult children would not include struggles for blended family. You might also
think that the children will accept their new step parent since they understand
their parent’s happiness. Not necessary and not always. Actually, it is hardly
that you would think also that there would only few issues between step kids
and step parents.
Expectations for an
all-adult blended family
People with adult children will generally think that they
have entirely reasonable expectation as they will be free to concentrate on
each other when entering a new blended family. They have already raised their
own children and look forward to a relationship free from tension and stress if
they were expecting raising step kids. The happy adult blended family scenarios
takes time, lowering of expectations and understanding in many cases where sweet
model matches reality.
What is the problem
with adults kids in a blended family
The real question you need to put into your mind is what grown
children possess against their parent being happy. Why they are not happy that
you found new relationship with someone who will share with your lonely life. You
might also think that growing families would feel relief by not having to worry
about you being along. The truth is, their problem might also be the same as it
might be if they were still living at home.
Should you need help or advice for your new blended family
especially when it comes to step kids, you can visit The Blended and Step Family
Resource Center.
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