Grandparents are normally left swinging in breeze when their
child divorces especially when there is a child left in non-custodial parent. Normally
in such cases, they missed the conventional family celebrations such as
birthdays, Christmas, thanksgiving, Hanukah and many other occasions.
Grandparents still have the same role in the new step family
but will be bigger especially when the new spouse has children or kids and
reentered remarriage with his or her son or daughter. The life will be more
improved and useful tool in making wonderful and pleasant relationship with
your step grandchildren. The benefits children will earn more from the loving
and caring grandparents that is normally immeasurable. You can also help your
grandchildren to adjust to the new step family by supporting them to their
roles. The first step to do this is to accept the step siblings with open arms
and open heart.
If you want to be welcome or make yourself feel welcome to
the new blended family, you must treat every member as if they are real family.
You need to consider treating the step kids also as fair from your heart and from
your mind. Without doing this will put the relationship of them to you or yours
to uncomfortable situation which will make it hard to adjust for all of you. If
you don’t know how to begin, you can go to The Blended and Step Family Resource
Center and obtain the best advice from the website.
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