You might have
given up expecting your new blended family to be same as your previous one. There
are lots of differences between the two families. Generally speaking, a new
couple sets off on a new life together in nuclear family with supports of
friends and love ones.
When a child is born, the couples learn to care for, love
and appreciate the child. They also start to redefine each other, moving from
partners and lovers to co-parents accepting these relationship changes as they
come along simply in a part of the way family life is and ought to be. Also,
having children makes the relationship much deeper.
Look
at your blended family as unique
The new blended couples make it hard to establish a home
together due to the nuclear family. By the time that the new blended family couples
establishes a home together, and then have been through many loss, legal
battles and heartbreak. Therefore, they are being provoked by experiences in
the past. They also suffer usually from recrimination from love ones and
friends. So having a blended family is something unique and differs from one
couple to another.
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