Sometimes you wonder what you did to deserve such disrespect
and anger from your step kids. Maybe nothing if you think about it. The truth
is that child found it hard to cope with blended family where many kids are
facing difficulties to face this kind of situation in their life. They can’t
understand sometimes the feeling of being overwhelmed, insecure or unstable and
can’t express their feelings verbally in an efficient way. Therefore, the step
parent in a blended family can be the easy target of this kind of situation and
also aids to remember not to make any personal attacks.
Reacting to angry and
disrespectful words
It is considered to be challenging for step parents facing
this kind of situation but with proper listening, heart and eyes to the angry
words being thrown to them, they can get used to the crux of their anger. Looking
for deeper reason is a skill worth developing and if failure happens to the
approach, then try another.
Outside counseling
It is appropriate for any type of abuse such as verbal to
not be tolerated. Counseling can help in this kind of situation where step kids attacks step parents or throw hurtful words to the step siblings. Counseling
is the appropriate way to overcome such situation that involves physical aggression
or other types of violence. So every member of the blended family deserves to
live in a household where in safety can be found. You can visit The Blended and
Step Resource Center to obtain the best advice for your blended family needs
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