Are experience difficulties talking with your ex-spouse
about your kids? Does it end up into an argument each time you talk about it? Here
are few suggestions for who, what, where, when and how to communicate with your
ex-spouse effectively.
Who
Your current spouse and mate should always have primary
communication and discuss about your spouse first.
What
The only thing you need to consider why you talk or
communicate with your ex-spouse is because of the children and none other.
When
Speak with your ex-spouse if it is urgent related such as
illness or trauma, but needs to have focus while talking with one another or
should we say in the state of mind.
Where
There is no need for a meet ups when you need to talk with
your ex-spouse, but in some cases, you can select a place where both of you
have the neutral side where discussion can be done effectively.
How
Talking with your ex-spouse regarding the kids is
acceptable, however consider emails or phone first before any other method if
it is effective.
Why
You need to maintain a working relationship with your
ex-spouse with some limitations and only for the purpose of cases involving the
kids.
Being a parent is tough in a blended family but if you focus
your mind and stay on the right track, it will be a lot easier. Just keep in
mind that you always do the right thing for the kids.
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