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It actually takes time to build a blended family since it
requires also patience, information, understanding and a good plan. Knowing
what you want for your blended family and understanding the challenges and
pitfalls inherent the family life in order to achieve the best for your blended
family goals. Establishing positive connections
between the step parents and step kids is one of the specific issues that make
the blended family challenging.
Make certain you know and show support for the
individual talents and interests of each family member. Praise effort as well
as accomplishments; encourage creativity; celebrate differences. Work on your
marital relationship so that your kids and step kids can learn how loving
people deal with one another. Within your blended family, model conflict
resolution; speak with considerate and kind words; deal immediately and
effectively with disrespectful or abusive behavior, and keep arguments between
you and your blended family partner fair and private. Develop a safe haven for
children to grow in. People need acceptance, and your blended family home is
the best and safest place for your kids to find it. Let your home be a place of
unconditional love for everyone in your extended step family. Set aside at
least an hour every day to spend with your blended family members. Take special
care to set aside one-on-one time with bio kids at least once a week, to be
sure your connection does not get lost in the mix.
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